Friday, January 4, 2013

Don'ts For Mothers, 2013 #2- Kevin Scent

Don'ts for Mothers, 2013 #2-Kevin Scent
 
Don't underestimate the relief and gratitude you feel coming home to a clean house, cooked dinner, and happy baby.





Our nieces will tell you that one of Uncle's most distinct character traits is his formidable scent. Watch out for this guy when he eats broccoli or french vanilla ice cream. Our baby has inherited this talent and thinks nothing is funnier than someone calling him "Farty Baby".

Despite this one notable exception, Raf is a pretty great guy. He has been cooking my meals since we've lived together and got a lot done when I was at work long before we had a child. I always appreciated it, but there's something extra special about all this happening when he is also watching the baby.

Jude had his two month check up today (the kid's in the 98th percentile for height!) so Raf brought him to the doctor and I met them there from work. He does most of the caring for the baby at the doctor. In the picture above he is entertaining Jude by making faces into the mirror. Yesterday he disassembled our Christmas decorations and made soup for an elderly neighbor. He did most of the night feed so I could get some sleep last night and has a magical rock that soothes Jude at his crazy crazy time of night when nothing else will.

Today he made us reverse wings for dinner. 

 
(What a gem of a conversation THIS was...)
 
Then he put my favorite Dashboard Unplugged DVD in, creating a perfect ending to this first week back at work. This guy's my favorite, especially since he shaved his mustache and even if he dresses like this:
 

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

Don'ts For Mothers, 2013 #1- Old Man Leeland

Don'ts for Mothers, 2013 #1-Old Man Leeland
 
Don't beat yourself up too much about going back to work, especially if you are leaving your child in the best of care (and have a briefcase full of crackers).


It sure was hard to leave this face this morning!

 I have really enjoyed my maternity leave. It has been wonderful to spend the days with Jude and see Raf as much as I have. It's been peaceful and really, really relaxing. However, as Mikey Cioffi will tell you, I am a company woman and I looked forward to returning to work. I am what you might call domestically challenged so the life of playing with my kids and keeping my house in reasonable order is not one for me. I know I will be a better mom because of going to work everyday. Some people are made to stay home with their children and do a fantastic job of it. They work harder than I ever will in my office and I have nothing but respect for them. Luckily, I found one such lady to watch my boy.





Jude had a great day, and I got regular updates from his aunt:



He especially enjoyed spending time with his beautiful cousins:




Even if they did this to him:




He ended the day how he started it: All smiles!


Now the real test: A day with Daddy tomorrow. Yikes!